Introduction
Let's face it, life is hard, and there are a lot of things that can tear you down. That is the reason I live by the aphorism: "Never fault anybody in your life. Good people give you happiness. Bad people give you experience. Most noticeably terrible individuals give you an illustration and Best individuals give you recollections". If someone treats you bad, it's okay! They gave you an experience, something that will make life easier for you in the future.
Like the saying, never blame anyone in your life.
Never blame anyone in your life. You became the person you are today because of the people who came before you and the choices they made. It's ridiculous to blame them for it. The only thing you can do is learn from their mistakes and make a better life for yourself.
The past is not important unless you're going to learn from it. I don't think anyone in history knows more about success than Napoleon Hill, who wrote Think and Grow Rich - the book that inspired a generation of millionaires. In his book, he tells the story of a man who was so frustrated with himself that he decided to go back in time and meet his younger self one-on-one. When he finally met up with his younger self, he began yelling at him for all the things he did wrong in his life.
The younger version of himself said, "I'm sorry sir, but I don't have time to hear this right now."
"I'm very busy," he said. "I'm penniless, disappointed and I've done nothing with my life."
And his older self just walked away. He couldn't stand to be around him because he knew that if he stayed any longer, he'd end up blaming him for all of his misery.
Be companions with individuals who are not the same as you.
Being friends with people who are different from you can be a great way to learn something new, which will help make you smarter. They can also help you find common ground and give you helpful advice. It's important to have opposites in your life, because they can help you to see things in a different light or motivate you to change for the better.
If someone is always urging you to stay out of trouble, it might be frustrating, but it could keep you out of trouble. If someone is always encouraging you to do well in school, it might seem annoying, but it could help you get a good job later on.
Trying New Things
When you hang around people who are different from you, one of the biggest benefits is that they often encourage you to try new things. For example, if everyone else at school loves football, but you hate it and prefer softball or swimming, your friends are likely going to try to get you involved in football games and activities.
You might not like every single thing they make you try, but if nothing else, it will expand your horizons and show that there are other fun things out there that might suit your personality better than what everyone else is doing.
A bad person can give you experience and make you not go through that bad situation again.
This might sound crazy, but I don't think we should judge bad people. If a person is a jerk to you, it doesn't mean you are above them or better than them, it simply means they were not good for you. A bad person can give you experience and make you not go through that bad situation again.
The same goes for someone who lies to you, manipulates you and treats you poorly. You're not better than them because they treated you like crap. They gave you an opportunity to learn and grow as a person.
If someone is cruel or mean to you, just move on and don't let it get to your head or have any negative effect on your self-esteem. You aren't any better or worse because of their actions.
You will be able to recognize the behavior in future relationships and hopefully avoid people who treat others poorly. The next time someone shows those tendencies toward you, walk away from that relationship as quickly as possible, for your own sanity and peace of mind.**
Let best people give you memories and good people live in your heart forever.
Wherever you go and whatever you do, let your heart be open to people. Because best people give you memories and good people live in your heart forever.
Tie them up with a nice present for their birthday or anniversary, help them out of the trouble, bless them with a smile, guide them to the right track and leave the rest to God.
The best people make us feel so comfortable in their presence , we can tell them anything without any hesitation and they never judge us; they give us the opportunity to be ourselves. Always there for us in times of need, they always help us come back on our feet when we fall down.
The best people are those who are not afraid to tell you what is good or bad about yourself because they love you. Never allow even one of these special persons to go away in your life with a feeling that they have been neglected or unappreciated. The best feelings come from within, the greatest treasures are hidden within our hearts and memories last forever.
Conclusion
Don’t forget to use this experience as a lesson and try not to repeat the same mistakes over again. Only good comes out of bad situations if we learn from them. You have lost that person but you will never lose the lessons they taught you. People come in our lives and make us who we are be it good or bad...
You never know they might leave but they will never be gone because they will always live somewhere in your mind. So always keep smiling, life is too short to cry. Your past makes you, your present defines you, and your future will make you… so be happy for what you have…. People change and memories fade, nothing is permanent in life except change.
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